The Nigerian Child and the Challenges of Insecurity

The Nigerian Child and the Challenges of Insecurity For us in Nigeria, the issue of child protection continues to remain on the front burner. Nigeria has ratified several legal instruments that codify child protection. In spite of the extant legal frameworks, systematic abuse still abound. The insecurity in the system also makes it especially challenging for children to grown under the best conditions. The discussion around security has become recently intense, so much so that it has drawn international concerns in the last six weeks- coming from insecurity recorded in Chibok, Borno State; where over 234 girls were kidnapped and presently remain untraceable on the continent, Africa. That insecurity affects children is not a statement in doubt. The reason being the majority of children across communities in Nigeria and Africa continue to suffer the psychological and emotional effects of insecurity. Using the Chibok experience as a case in point, we must realize the grave effects of their kidnap on their lives. For the few girls that escaped the hook of their abductors while in transit, their tale has been that of woes. It is predictable that the girls who are still in captivity and those that are already free will long continue to live in fear even when there is a promise of guaranteed security. These girls, majority of them may never remain in school. They may never go back to school and even if they did, they may never trust the system to support them. Insecurity is the state of being open to danger or threat, lack of protection. If we go by the definition of insecurity, we will agree that the term is fit for what children and adults continue to battle with in Nigeria. There is a present state of fear, especially for girls in the northern part of Nigeria who initially have had to handle being married off to husbands they may never have loved. Now the situation has come to a degenerated level, where they may eventually get engaged to terrors who continue to create an unfit nation-state, Nigeria. Quickly to be noted are the effects of insecurity on the nation. It has created a negative effect on the system for which children today will be its managers tomorrow. Sadly, we are crippling the system so much that these children may never have a grasp of it enough to handle its myriads of challenges. Readily coming to mind is the internal displacement of children when there are issues of insecurity sweeping across states. The issue of insecurity must not be assumed to be domiciled in the northern part of Nigeria, as there are equally a number of communities in the south of Nigeria manifesting a high level of insecurity, thus creating an unfair system for the children that grow in them. Violence continue to manifest across concrete spaces in communities, from schools to recreational centers, bus terminals and stops and these are spaces children continue to make use of daily. Insecurity as it concerns children in Nigeria is manifested in the area of domestic sexual abuse in children, abduction of children as well as torture and trafficking for sexual purposes and domestic servitude. Insecurity has been implicated in the scourge of economic stagnation and underdevelopment. Nigeria recently rebased its economic index and was named Africa’s largest economy as at 2014. Whilst this is a feat, it must be argued that development is nothing when the citizens, a high number of them being young people live in fear of being abused. Beyond establishing agencies, reviewing existing policies, and so forth, Nigeria must be willing to enforce the laws that are created to protect its citizens. Children must be adequately considered in this equation as deliberately ignoring them will mean planning for tomorrow’s big day without the celebrants! There are roles to be played by various stakeholders in ensuring that children are protected from the menace of insecurity in Nigeria. Several stakeholders have an input in this but we will limit this discuss to three key stakeholders: The Government The Civil Society and Associations The Media The government is the first agent that will ensure that the children are adequately protected from abuse. We link abuse, in the context of insecurity often to the lack of protection for children in the communities we live in. Beyond ensuring that there are laws that protect children, it must stand up to its responsibility of providing an enabling environment for the children. Laws must be enforced, and they must adequately ensure that culprits are not unduly shielded because they appear to be above the law. In most cases, it has been rumored that the insurgence in most part of the country are being sponsored by some top individuals in the system. While this has not been verified enough to use in our logic and argument, it will be important not to sweep this assumptions or speculations under the carpet. The state must ensure that its security option is not lingering and doing business as usual. It must work assiduously with the communities that presently do not find law enforcement agents as trustworthy. The time for the chair arm, sit to discuss approach is over. There must be a concrete move to action. The civil society groups have a corresponding role to ensure that the government is living up to its responsibilities, not just at its own time, but timely. This is exactly what we have experienced in the last few weeks, like several times in the past where civil society continue to raise the discourse around providing protection for children. Civil society groups must continue to engage stakeholders in the society, be they political leaders, religious heads or market women, for the purpose of ensuring that these have a buy-in into the debate of ensuring child protection is enshrined in the way we do business in Nigeria. It should not be business as usual. It should engender adequate provision of information for the citizens as they continue to grapple with the insecurity in the country. Mentoring programmes should be organised by civil society groups to help provide support to young people as they prepare for tighter insecurity challenges that we may face, if nothing is done to halt the menace of terrorism. Until recently, children issues were never front burner issues in the media. The media must take issues around child protect as governance issues are projected in the media. The long neglect of projecting the child angle and protection need have contributed to the long decay in the fight against many who abuse children. Insecurity should not be limited to abduction or violence outside the home. In some cases children have had to live in a porous and insecure home, where they are subjected to reckless abuse and infringement. The media should therefore devote a large portion of its reporting on children’s issues to ensure that they are adequately reported and support given. Summarily, Nigeria must continue to ensure that it provides support for its teaming young population. The consequences of ignoring the threat of insecurity will not just be fear and psychological trauma, but economic stagnation as well as a population large enough but unable to groom its growing population academically. Many will continue to avoid spaces where they feel danger is looming and riff, and this invariable will affect future gaps that will open as the present mature generation retire. We must act fast now to ensure that we are in the vanguard of protecting children in the face of insecurity in Nigeria.

Fearing Ebola!

The Ebola Fear in Me! This past week has been a lot of stress for me. Having to ensure that my babies are fine, and playing my new role as a dad has been all hectic. And I seem to be coping; several comments have testified to that from friends. Then, the news about the Ebola Virus hits the social space. It didn’t ring much a bell to me about how grave it was and will be for us in Nigeria, until a Blackberry Broadcast hit my phone! It had informed that a Liberian guest to Nigeria, fully infected with the virus, was in a hospital close to my office. He was being managed and a few hours later, the news about his demise, broke. Now the big deal, it was on all media platforms. And the description of this virus was sending chills down the spine of everyone that read about it. I had a need to check my little baby who had to see a doctor in hospital, but I have been more worried lately about the hospitals. I am worried about the patients that come in. I am worried about the air that permeates the hospital environment, much as I worry about anyone sneezing or coughing around the hospital. I just can’t come to terms with the description of this deadly scourge that has defied every known attempt to bring it to its knees. I really don’t know how much efforts have been put into the fight to stop the spread here in Nigeria, but I just worry about commuting in a bus. I worry about the bus stops and the people around it. I am nearly tempted to get a nose mask as I commute, and I don’t know how this will appear to onlookers. But it seems that’s about the best and easiest way to manage the situation now. In a few days, I will need to travel through our nation’s airspace. I am worried a lot. I am worried about the passengers I may have to travel with for the duration of my flight. I am indeed very worried about it. I am worried about the check-in, which is often very laborious and slow, making everyone sweaty and irritant. I hear the virus lives in man’s sweat. I hear it is so dangerous that it stubbornly lives like an untamed warrior in the body of its dead victim. This informs the decision by international health professionals to ensure disposal of Ebola victims using every means possible, but casual burying! I am just mortified. I just hope that a vaccine is found, today and now. I have read all I could about this, and I just hope we find a quick cure to it. I am saddened by the fact that a number of professionals who have been in the forefront of managing some sick Ebola victims have had to pay the supreme price, with their lives. I worry that people who know more about health precautions and the Ebola virus have bowed to this dreaded king. I now wonder and worry for people who have little knowledge, who depend on these professionals for advice; I wonder how we will handle monster. Now, everyone seem to know that between HIV and Ebola, there’s a better choice! I hope the lone reported case has been crushed. At least, I read the dead man was cremated and disposed of, while everyone who traveled with him on that flight from Liberia en-route Lome has been traced for close clinical observation. I hope the cabin crew members that served the aircraft he traveled on have also been identified. The man who cleaned his first vomit as reported, also. I hope the immigration officers on duty as he arrived the MMIA have also been checked. I just feel sorry about all these pains we have to manage. I hope that this dream comes to an end and we don’t all have to be swept to our graves, in pains!

Chibok and the Misery of our Missing Girls

While the world prepared to celebrate the resurrection of Jesus death, the 14th April 2014 will continue to sink deep in the minds of the citizens in Nigeria. Nigerians were awakened to the realization of another bomb explosion in the Federal Capital Territory. While we mourned, the Boko Haram Group claimed responsibility. Yet, we had a quick blow again with sweeping news of the kidnap of girls from a boarding facility in Chibok, Borno State, North-East Nigeria. This time, the girls who were preparing for the West African Senior Secondary School Certificate Examination were in a flash, woken up late night from sleep by what was reported as ‘camouflage soldiers.’ These girls were taken, all in a couple of vehicles that conveyed them to where we are not able to ascertain nearly 3 weeks later. The first report in the news was that about a hundred students were kidnapped. Sadly, the figures continue to increase by the day as evidence has shown that there was more than the initially reported figure. As at the last, report had it that there were more than three hundred girls, mostly Christians. The Christian Association of Nigeria last week released the list of about 180 girls who were Christians and presently missing. It is very unfortunate that in a country that prides itself as the giant of Africa, security support for citizens is lacking. The Chibok case was compounded because a number of schools were hosted in the abduction location because there had been threatened security in the state, Borno. Thus, there had been a decision, which now appears to have been very myopic and lacking in foresight. The decision had been to bring all the students in one school and guard the place. Unfortunately, this did not bring the result desired. It has brought us to this stale end, which has erupted in several calls and protest to return our girls across Africa, Europe and the US. The calls continue to resonate as there are indications that the girls are being raped daily by the terrorists who have abducted them. We come to the conclusion based on the report given by a number of girls who had taken their destiny into their hands by escaping during their trip to the unknown. For a number of them who were not initially fortunate to escape, but later did, they tell the tales of frequent rape that characterised the operations of the deadly Boko Haram group. In spite of all the aforementioned, the Federal Government of Nigeria continues to assure its citizens of its efforts to ensure the girls return. Unfortunately, Nigerians know better that such show of concern are not sincere as the president appear to be more concerned about the 2015 elections which he may be seeking reelection. Presently, a video clip which was released in the early part of the week reveals the Boko Haram leader has vowed to ‘sell the girls.’ This corroborates an initial report that some of the girls were being sold to serve as wives for a mere $14. This is in the least expression, repugnant and unfortunate. If the girls ever get released, we are worried about the systems’ effort to ever get them to handle the psychological and emotional trauma they may live with for life. Nigeria has not in the past been able to manage such trauma in its citizens, and it may be just another cycle of a broken future for these girls. We hope that the government will continue to pay more than lip service and ensure that these girls are returned to their families who presently suffer the guilt of pain and frustration.

Drained but not Demotivated

Its a saturday and I am indoors. I have been home all day today,as I woke up very tired and drained. I have being facilitating training
sessions that have brought me smiles cause the participants have been amazing and cooperative. However,my voice is a bit cracky as I talked so much it complained.

And now, I feel a bit unwell. So I just used some pain relieves as I have been doing in the last three days consecutively. I have training to facilitate on Monday and Tuesday,after which I will travel on Tuesday night. I hope I can cope with all the stress I am muddled up into on this job. I feel drained, but dont feel demotivated. I know I will be fine again.

Days have wings

I came here just about a week ago and have lived in this room for about six nights now. Its time to leave. Its time to go back home,and I am happy for it. There are obvious reasons to be happy for it. The activities I have taken part in has been very fascinating and being the rapporteur for the one week like I always have been,was worth the stressful pleasure. But time flies,and it has fled again. My sight could not follow it in this flight. So I am ready
to move to its direction,and return home again. I have learned that we all have a part to play in the educational development of
our land.Ops! The intercom rings calling me to the breakfast table.

I think I will have to go swiftly,so that I can have what I love best at breakfast,beacons and hot-dogs. I have had many fingers of
the latter. Days have wings,and its time to say goodbye and not farewell to Rockview Hotels!I will be back in July for 3 nights!

Stretching my tolerance

Was in the community yesterday as planned. And what else was i expecting. I got it more than i felt i should. I had a poor experience with the community members but i had to tie down my heart so it would not burst out of anger. How can i explain all the audacity in the hands of one vice-chair who saw himself as a demi-god. Anyhow that is the price to pay when you want to help those who feel they are so knowledgeable.

After all,the schools are owned by the community. I will do my best. All I have to do is provide support for those who need it. I wonder what the community forum will look like;bringing together over 40 like minds with the vice-chair! hmmm, oh my God hear my voice and see me through. It is my calling. I cant deny that testimony of my heart.

Letter from my mind

Huh i had a terrific outing today. I was drained and nearly lost my motivation . I had hopped from school to school in the rains. I had learned more routes in lagos but i am not enjoying school heads and their approach to things. But for a few who made me smile and
rejoice,most of them made me nearly loose my sanity.

Anyhow i had to also get to apapa today and the education secretary was amazing . He made working on the activities a bit more relaxing. I didnt have breakfast until about 2pm and i had it hot-amala and ewedu soup. Something i have not had like forever. Anyhow i returned home and not to the office else i may faint before the
truth.